Week 10: Friendship Communication & Boundaries
Week 10 Summary
Week Summary
This week, we examined the unique communication dynamics of friendship - often our most important voluntary relationships. We explored how different types of friendships operate, the unwritten rules that govern them, and how to set and maintain healthy boundaries that protect both ourselves and our friendships.
Key Takeaways
- 1Friendships exist on a spectrum from acquaintances to best friends, each with different communication patterns
- 2Implicit rules govern friendships - when they differ between friends, explicit conversation is needed
- 3Boundaries protect relationships by preventing resentment and burnout - setting them is caring, not rejection
- 4Addressing boundary violations requires promptness, clarity, kindness, and sometimes evaluation of the friendship's sustainability
- 5Friendships require intentional maintenance, especially through life transitions
Coming Up Next Week
Next week, we'll turn to family communication - the relationships we don't choose but must navigate. We'll explore family systems, communication patterns passed through generations, and strategies for healthier family interactions.